- Things are starting to get out of control
- There's not enough time for everything so I get stuck and can't do anything
- Overwhelmed easily
- Anxious
- I'm f.i.n.e.
- Find it hard to sit still
- Concentration shot to bits
- Need to have order around me
- Irritated by noise - kids, tv, dogs barking, washing machine........all too much (particularly if these are all happening at the same time)
- Very busy head, hard to control where thoughts go. Generally difficult to pick out what the thoughts are, just lots at the same time.
- Very forgetful
- Tired
- Very irritable and snappy, on a short fuse
- At some level I'm aware I need to slow down and try and turn this around, but it's getting increasingly hard to do it
- Motivation for anything very low
- Losing perspective
- Work is a struggle
- Hard to sleep
- Bitchface is pretty shouty now
- Meds aren't working
- Over-reliant on Therapist
By now I'm in very dangerous territory and unless I manage myself really carefully (or more to the point at this stage, Hubby, friends, Therpist help me manage) I cross over into red. Red is bad, very, very bad.
- Bitchface is in control
- Overwhelmed by everyday tasks
- I want to run away, I feel trapped
- Impatient. Everything needs to happen now, right now, this very minute!
- Mood can be anything from numb to angry to extremely low
- Crying, shouting, angry, picking fights
- Perspective is gone
- Motivation is gone
- Blame Hubby for perceived problems
- Black and white thinking - I'm always like this, it's never going to go away, we're always fighting.
- Urges to self harm, suicidal thoughts
- Completely withdrawn from everyone - Hubby, kids, family, friends. I just want to be left alone.
- If left alone, I'll sit and stare at nothing for hours
- Want to stop seeing Therapist while at the same time desperately want to talk to her
- Want to stop taking meds
- Hospital
So there you have it. I really like this. When Anne sent it to me first, I could identify with so much of what she had written. Lots of the above are my own, but, lots are hers, which is interesting in that it really goes to show just how similar we all feel with depression.
And today? Today, surprisingly enough considering I'm tapering meds, I'm good, somewhere between yellow and green, and tending more towards green. I'm being very mindful of what I'm doing at the moment, and trying to be aware of what I need physically and emotionally, rather than what I want (which can often be the exact opposite of what I need). I'm eating well (mostly), I'm getting lots of sleep, I'm walking my dogs, I'm doing some very gentle,
restorative yoga and I'm using
headspace. And I'm still standing!